we don’t call this love, but
the charring is all the same
you keep looking up at me
every conversation digs us deeper
& I’ve loved my own long enough
to know you’ll always choose
the husband, maybe the saddest part is
I don’t even blame you,
just tend to the dying cinder of us,
not-very-deep-down at all,
I always knew we’d be terminal
hearth & heart are a pyre each
their own, for me, every feeling a smoldering
& you, every desire something to be extinguished
this is for the pride of knowing
I’m going to lose & playing the game, anyway
I speak & feel my words
ash mid-sentence
& I know my place, so close to the fire
I don’t even realize when I start to burn —
I play my part,
all ember & searching
you play yours,
entrancing & gone
all this not-together
the smoke rising
that eventually
becomes nothing